Personality

I think there is alot that has shaped my personality. When i was little we grew up in the suburbs of chicago so my parents werent as lenient as they are now. After moving up north here it has made a big difference. I guess you could say to my friends i grew up with back in illinois i am a country girl now. i dont enjoy the same things they do for fun and they dont enjoy the same things i do for fun. In that aspect my family and friends have made a huge impact. I have had my heart opened up and stomped on by a guy i was with for 4 years so i guess you could say i have major trust issues now. I grew up as a tom boy. My dad loves snowmobiling and so do i now. my friends back in illinois frown upon even the thought that i race snocross now. But that is who i am i guess. So several things all building up to make me who i am today. and from this whole chapter if i were to say there were one theory that i took from this it would be the one made from Rogers. It is basically letting you aknowledge who you are and who you would like to be, it allows you to view yourself in a possitive matter letting you surround yourself with positive and genuine people also. That is the way i think it should be. after all, you can generally judge someone based on the people they surround themselves with!